Perhaps the best way to start approaching the task of writing a eulogy is to go back to the meaning of the word eulogy, which is derived from Greek words translating broadly as a good word. A eulogy is a speech written to be read at funerals, to commemorate the memory of a departed one.
Written by someone who is close to you, an obituary becomes an intimate view of what made you memorable to others. The details that a funeral home will take care of include the care of the body, the hosting of a wake or viewing, the funeral services either there or in a place of worship and the burial. You won't be expected to express the thoughts and feelings of everyone present, nor to give a detailed account of the life of the deceased.
Hearing and sharing these memories can help you create a more complete picture of the person for those who are hearing you. Organize the materials that you have gathered, pick the data that you will need then prepare an outline. You'll only have to speak for five to ten minutes, your gift will live on in the hearts of the deceased's family and friends.
Practice delivering your eulogy in front of a mirror or a friend in order that you can see if improvements or additional editing have to be made. Grieving is normal as it forms part of our complex emotions as human beings.
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