If you're looking for a poem to read at a funeral there are certain things you should be aware of first. Losing a family member or close friend can be devastating and can have a lasting effect on all who knew the person who has passed.
Missing a loved one after death can be a difficult time. Generally, the attendees do not want to give additional grief to those affected, hence the tendency is to keep quiet and simply extend their support silently. If you are asked to deliver a eulogy for someone you know, take a moment to sort out your feelings about the deceased and gather your thoughts.
In the event that you are asked to deliver a eulogy for a person, whom you don't know well, the first thing you should do is speak with friends and family members, if possible. A Celebrant is trained to help individuals create and present a personalized funeral, memorial or celebration of life service. If the deceased was a practical joker or light-hearted individual, maybe a poem that incorporates a bit of humor would remind their family of what a happy spirit that individual was.
It is important that you avoid any statements or references that portray the deceased in a negative manner. It is a chance to help others begin the transition to a life after the person's passing.
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