They have a lot of positive effect because something which is beautifully written and sensible expressed can actually have a soothing effect on the bereaving. There are a lot of preparations to be done in order that the eulogy delivery will be effective.
Maybe you're unsure of your ability to manage your emotions as you share your memories of your loved one. Personal experiences are expected to be re told and reminisced, and to be shared with other people who will be listening. If your family is part of a religious community and the deceased would have wanted a religious service then you can look to your minister, rabbi, or priest to help guide you through making arrangements.
When it's time to make the speech, no matter how you deliver it in the end, the important thing to remember is that it will leave the love in the hearts of all the people who attend the funeral. If you are asked to speak at a memorial or funeral service and are having a difficult time writing down how this loss has made you or the family feel, consider including a poem in your tribute. Think about your favorite memories of the people you love chances are many of those memories are based on funny events.
Above all, remember to breathe. Keep in mind, when writing a eulogy, this type of speech should last anywhere from four to ten minutes.
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